• 8:30 PM
OK, so I’m in a mood – been in a mood – hope to overcome the mood soon or just survive the mood again . It would have been Sherry & my 39th anniversary today. I remember when we first started the anniversary bar napkin tradition. I‘d have to do too much math to say what what year that was but it continued to the end. Our old and dear friend Ken Henderson was playing at the (?)(escapes me at the moment(?) hotel close to the I 74 bridge in Bettendorff Ia. We each made a written statement on a bar napkin and signed it and that was our “contract”. That meant more to us than any legal agreement. We’d both had HAD legal agreements -
OK enough of that too- summarize it to say – the years were rarely easy for us with life issues but we were a team from that first time WE were a team. No we didn’t always agree, that’s not what BUILDS a relationship, disagreeing and dealing with it / compatibly / acceptance builds a relationship. In my (maybe) less than humble opinion.
Summarizing it to say- I love you Sherry & always will- I miss you terribly, not what you did or anything else like that but WHO you were.
OK-Ok folks I don’t normally get very personal on this media normally but . . . Maybe next time I’ll just write an e-mail to myself – Something about composing it and writing it out . . .
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